Excellence starts…now

You know, as I do, that deeply satisfying feeling that comes from doing your best and having it work out even better than you could ever expect.

Think of the last time you exceeded your own high standards and goals.

Recall that delicious feeling that arises when you beat your prior best and find out in the process that you’re braver and stronger and capable of far more than you even knew was possible.

It’s a pretty wonderful experience.

The only way to find these things out is to risk failure in the process of trying to achieve success.

Here’s the way one famous businessman viewed the “don’t wait, start today” process of achieving excellence:

“If you want to achieve excellence, you can get there today. As of this second, quit doing less than excellent work.”

Thomas J. Watson, Sr.

Dealing confidently with uncertainty

Uncertain times, like the times we’re in, bring discomfort and unease.

Times when we feel out of control (like the debt ceiling vote in Washington, DC and the impact it can have on each of us) can be just plain maddening, yes, when it seems they are preventable.

There’s nothing we can do to take the debt ceiling vote in Congress ourselves, much as we would like to.

Remember, though, you get to have your say when you vote in November, 2012.

In the meantime, it’s worth remembering that we’ve survived uncertain and risky times before, and we can do it again.

Think back…and get specific for a minute.

Consider a time when you felt out of control, yet things worked out well, in the end.

- What was the circumstance you were dealing with then?

- What did you worry would happen?

- What happened instead?

- Was your worry worth it?

- Did you put your fear and frustration to good use, such as by making different decisions, taking different actions, or in some way, protecting yourself from the things you feared could happen?

- What was your part in riding out that uncertainty as well as you could, instead of riding a pointless roller coaster of emotions?

- What did you do to create a better outcome than you feared you would experience?

- What can you do to deal with uncertain times now, based on what you recall from that successful past experience?

To provide even more of a long-term perspective, consider these thoughts about challenge and change:

Action and reaction, ebb and flow, trial and error, change – this is the rhythm of living. Out of our over-confidence, fear; out of our fear, clearer vision, fresh hope. And out of hope, progress.
Bruce Barton

Any change, even for the better, is always accompanied by drawbacks and discomforts.
Arnold Bennett

Today I will be happier than…


Today I will be happier than…
Originally uploaded by jcgr

This thought made me laugh:

“Today I will be happier than a bird with a french fry.”

It’s the idea our daughter sees as she leaves her apartment every day.

And just for a moment – an important moment – it creates a smile that brightens her eyes and lightens her heart as she enters the day, and sometimes the fray.

What will you be happier than today?

Three big risks on your way to big goals

The challenges of a big challenge are many.

Here are just three of the errors that it’s easy to make if you don’t plan and manage your work effectively:

1. Getting into action without a plan

You’re likely in this case to find out that you’re quickly far afield of where you intended to be.

2. Creating a plan but never getting action underway

You’re likely to be filled with fear about something you think you can’t achieve or a problem you can’t conquer. You never get around to turning your great ideas into results that count for anything.

3. Losing track of your target along the way

Here you start implementing your plan, but you don’t follow up well and consistently. You lose your sense of the destination as well as the path there.

Here’s what others advise about these risks, and what happens if you don’t meet them effectively:

Don’t wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what? Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful.
Mark Victor Hansen

Every accomplishment starts with the decision to try.
Unknown

Any goal without a plan is just a wish.
Larry Elder

If you can find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn’t lead anywhere.
Frank A. Clark

The more intensely we feel about an idea or a goal, the more assuredly the idea, buried deep in our subconscious, will direct us along the path to its fulfillment.
Earl Nightingale

If you don’t know where you are going, how can you expect to get there?
Basil S. Walsh

When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don’t adjust the goals, adjust the action steps.
Confucius

The major reason for setting a goal is for what it makes of you to accomplish it. What it makes of you will always be the far greater value than what you get.
Jim Rohn

“It is not the mountain that we conquer but ourselves.”
Edmund Hillary

Imagine a good outcome for two

Farmers Market Negotiations
Originally uploaded by jcgr

Man can only receive what he sees himself receiving.
Florence Scovel Shinn

The buyer in this farmer’s market scene clearly sees herself going home with a bundle of beautiful, fresh peppers.

The seller sees himself making a beautiful, healthy profit.

Whether she goes home pepper-fulfilled and he goes home profit-fulfilled depends on whether they can find a meeting point between their individual visions visions of success.

The same thing happens in any negotiation, and many different types of interactions.

Think back on a time when you found a good solution between what may have been two very different original visions of success.

Let that experience guide you to fresh success with a negotiating challenge ahead.

Forget yourself

Among recent thought-provoking quotes I’ve found, I love this one most of all:

Develop interest in life as you see it; in people, things, literature, music – the world is so rich, simply throbbing with splendid treasures, beautiful souls, and interesting people. Forget yourself.
Henry Miller

What about you?

What interests help you most to forget about your troubles, your fears, and sometimes, your goals and aspirations, too?

How can you most naturally get immersed in the moment, free of the past, free of the future?

As hard as it may be to do, in ways that are satisfying to you, as often as you can, fill yourself with the present.

Really…get excited and change things

Get excited by vintage letterpress
Originally uploaded by flowers&fleurons

Do you see something that could be better?

Or see something that’s just not right?

Do you have a dream of better things…for you, your company, country or world?

Then muster your courage.

Follow the urge.

And take this poster’s sage advice:

Get excited and change things.

You’re always creating

We’re constantly creating, each of us, in our own way.

We create products and services.

We create relationships with suppliers, partners, and customers, as well.

We create personal relationships. We create families.

We build bridges, networks, and communities.

We create moments. We craft futures, with decisions and actions, large and small.

We’re creating in more ways than we even know.

Here are thoughts others offer on the process of creating in various ways:

True happiness comes from the joy of deeds well done, the zest of creating things new.
Antoine de Saint-Exupery

We are constantly creating ourselves by what we move toward or away from.
George Weinberg

You can teach a student a lesson for a day; but if you can teach him to learn by creating curiosity, he will continue the learning process as long as he lives.
Unknown

We are creating the future.
Gunter Grass

Celebrate along the way

Don’t wait until the finish line. Celebrate along the way.

Here’s what others have to say on the all-important subject of celebrating well:

Celebrate what you want to see more of.
Tom Peters

Life has meaning only in the struggle. Triumph or defeat is in the hands of the Gods. So let us celebrate the struggle.
Swami Sivananda

Celebrate the little things in life, appreciate tomorrow, love your neighbor or don’t, but never condemn yourself to a life without cause to celebrate and be thankful for what you have. Never forget the people you love and love them when you have an occasion to do so. Celebrate their life and celebrate yours.
Unknown

Stop worrying about the potholes in the road and celebrate the journey!
Barbara Hoffman

Traveling the creative path

Creating something new?

Or is a new phase of your life beginning to unfold?

The various phases of change take different energy and focus.

You can be sure that persistence will be needed, through it all.

Here are a few other thoughts about creating in work and life:

You need to save some mental, physical and emotional resources for enhancing your product after you ship. A revolution is a triathlon, not a hundred-yard dash. It requires long-distance stamina and multiple skills such as creating, churning and evangelizing.
Guy Kawasaki

The difference between great people and everyone else is that great people create their lives actively, while everyone else is created by their lives, passively waiting to see where life takes them next. The difference between the two is the difference between living fully and just existing.
Michael E. Gerber

If I don’t put effort toward creating what I want, I have to put effort toward coping with what I get.
Unknown