A smile- and thought-provoking sticker:
Wag more. Bark less.
Good advice for people as well as their pets.
See a moment. Take a moment. Give a moment.
A smile- and thought-provoking sticker:
Wag more. Bark less.
Good advice for people as well as their pets.
You don’t know what’s going to happen any time you walk on the field, literally and metaphorically speaking.
You might come off at the end of the game having won or lost.
And if you’re the victor, you may even come off the field with a performance that’s one for the record books.
Jonathan Sanchez, a San Francisco Giants pitcher, pitched a no-hitter Friday night – the first for the San Francisco Giants since 1976 and the first at home since 1975.
For those of us caught up in the pursuit, each pitch watched breathlessly, it was a thing of beauty to observe. Really.
Any superb performance, no matter what field of play in which it occurs, is a thing of beauty to be part of, and to observe.
These are some of the “how to get your own no-hitter” guidelines that occurred to me as we watched and listened to this rare feat on Friday, and listened to the extensive post-game analysis:
1. Prepare in every way you can, ahead of the game.
Do everything you can to be mentally, physically and emotionally ready for the work, the challenge at hand.
Practice hard. Practice well. Stretch the boundaries of what you were capable of before.
Mental preparation counts as much as physical preparation does. The victory often goes to the person who thinks he or she can win the most. Prepare yourself so that you can handle the “moment” when you must make the right call and make the right move, or lose it all.
2. Learn from the masters.
Jonathan Sanchez had, apparently, listened a lot to Randy Johnson, a legendary pitcher in the final years of his career.
The odds are, he learned many things in those talks – mental, physical, and emotional preparation for the challenges he might face as a pitcher.
That probably all contributed to his ability to stay the course and deliver a no-hitter, and will have a very positive impact on the rest of his career, as well.
3. Be open to the moment.
Once you’ve prepared, in all ways, then you have to be open to whatever may happen. You can’t control what will happen…you just have to be ready to freely, fully respond.
And then let it go. Fully play the game.
4. Be in the moment.
Respond to what is happening now, right now. You’re not in the next inning, or the last one. You’re not in the next game. You have no business worrying, at this moment, about the full season, your career, or dreaming about the next vacation.
“Be here now.” Really.
5. If someone has a no-hitter going and it’s a guy, LEAVE HIM ALONE.
And if the “no-hitter” is underway in a different field, and it’s a woman who has excellence unfolding, take your cues from her about what would help.
On Friday night, no one would talk to, look directly at, or go ANYWHERE NEAR Jonathan Sanchez when it was the Giants’ turn at bat, and they were in the dugout. It almost looked as if he was being ostracized, if it had occurred in a different context.
The dynamic was fascinating to me, never having seen a no-hitterbefore. My husband and son knew right away what was going on. The commentators, one a former major league pitcher himself, talked at length about not wanting to be the one to “jinx” the streak, or break Sanchez’ concentration.
As I watched, intrigued, this quote occurred to me:
“You lose it if you talk about it.”
Ernest Hemingway
6. It takes a team to get a no-hitter.
For Jonathan Sanchez, it took many players and advisors to create the nearly perfect game, and no-hitter.
It took a catcher, Eli Whiteside, with whom Sanchez had great communication, and in whom he had great trust to make the right calls about which pitch to throw. It also took Whiteside’s calming presence to keep Sanchez focused at crucial times.
It took a patient and persistent pitching coach, Dave Righetti, to coach Sanchez for days or weeks to adjust his pitching mechanics, bringing out his full potential, at that time, in that moment, under the pressure of history in the making.
It took an outfielder, Aaron Rowand, who could catch a ball that might have turned into a double, a triple – but certainly would have taken the no-hitter down if he had missed the ball at the wall.
It took a manager, Bruce Bochy, who believed in the pitcher to do the job.
7. It takes some luck and serendipity, too.
It took a few serendipitous changes of plan for the unlikely combination of Sanchez and Whiteside to be working together on this night. Veteran and legendary pitcher, Randy Johnson, who was scheduled to pitch that night but could not. And catcher, Bengie Molina, was scheduled to catch but his wife went into labor, so he, too, was gone from the line-up.
8. It also takes a close personal support system.
The final detail that “made the moment”?
Sanchez’ father, Sigfredo, flew in to see his son for the first time as a major league starting pitcher. We’ll never know what impact that had on Sanchez’ no-hitter, but it was a beautiful experience for them to share.
And it was a beautiful moment to watch when, the game in the record books, and father and son hugged, tears in their eyes (at least the dad did…and some of us as fans did, too). It was a moment that choked up even veteran sports watchers and commentators.
9. It takes getting out of your own way.
All the raw talent and diligent preparation can be there. But you also have to get out of your own way to let success happen.
If you start questioning your luck, ability, or belief that it can happen while the action is underway and the opportunity for success is at hand, that might be all it takes for the potential to become a would-be, should-be, could-have-been-if-only story.
There’s more, certainly, that goes into creating excellence.
If not, no-hitters and their counterparts in each of our own fields of work and play would be more common.
For now, these are just a few places to start if you’re going for your own “no-hitter.”
What ideas would you add, about how to produce a “no-hitter” in baseball, or any endeavor?
An unusual arrow-shaped cloud seems to provide directions to a goal.
As in, "Your destination is right HERE."
Or "You CAN'T MISS IT…turn right here, right now."
And if not an actual guidepost, if nothing else, it was an amusing interlude in a very long drive.
"Know your limits, but don't let your limits hold you back."
That was the response of our son, Matt, to my question about what the theme of his work would be, if he were a novelist or screenwriter.
We were driving the many miles back from college visits in Southern California last week (6 college visits in 3 days – whew!).
"Don't you like the 'sky's the limit' theme?" I asked, a bit surprised, but also amused.
"No, I hate that one!" he said, emphatically.
I laughed, and thought his sister might agree.
They've each spent years, relatively speaking, under the tutelage of coaches in a total of five or six sports, collectively. All coaches, everywhere – sports and business, too – promote the no-limits theme.
The more I thought about Matt's self-motivation and his "know the limits but move the limits" theme, I liked it.
As I let the idea play a bit, it seems to me he's not saying one should be restrained by expectations.
Rather, one should start from the base of reality – the facts of one's initial performance – then test and stretch the limits through hard work, driven by a dream.
The baseline thought? We are not all blessed with Michael Phelps' native swimming talents, Ernest Hemingway's literary ability, or Marie Curie's curiosity and scientific skills. We cannot all win the championship ring in our chosen field.
But given that, we can each do the hard work to move the limits we initially perceive.
And sometimes those limits can move very, VERY far from what we originally believed, with enough hard work, and a big enough dream.
So many things are a matter of timing.
You can get it perfectly right.
Or, as in this case, perfectly wrong, if your objective was what my objective was.
I wanted to capture a moment for the family scrapbook, and get a picture of the people standing BEHIND this enthusiastic burger eater. (It was my family. Our two kids were just off the plane and full of energy and great stories after visiting close relatives in the Midwest).
But if you have another chance, as I did, to get the job done, "perfectly wrong" can become a source of amusement, at least.
What's the last serendipitous moment that, while it missed the mark for you, provided amusement, ultimately?
Amused by a message I received that someone had just completed their to-do list and it included 103 tasks, I paused.
It sounded uncomfortably familiar.
How about yours?
How many items do you have, staring you down, on the to-do list on your desk (or hidden in your drawer)?
Concentrate, instead, on the one most important task.
Make it a one-goal day.
What is that one for you, right now?
Get ahead of the game.
Don't wait.
Don't procrastinate.
Don't let it "age," like fine wine, until it's perfect.
Do it now.
Look around.
There's beauty to be found, where you are.
Right now.
Somewhere. Somehow.
On this particular day, in this place, an intense watercolor swath of color painted the sky, visible for miles as we drove.
Take a look around.
Look up.
Look down.
There's simple beauty today, where you are.
It's there, somewhere.
Right now.
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