Curious…

Monday is a good day to amp up curiosity. It leads you farther into a subject you're learning, closer to an opportunity, opens up an entirely new possibility in life. And on Monday, well, we can all use more of that.

Here are a few thoughts on curiosity that may trigger more of your own, or perhaps a memory of a time in life when curiosity served you very, very well:

Life was meant to be lived, and curiosity must be kept alive. One must never, for whatever reason, turn his back on life.
Hyman G Rickover

The cure for boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for curiosity.
Dorothy Parker

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity.
Albert Einstein

Only the curious will learn and only the resolute overcome the
obstacles to learning. The quest quotient has always excited me more
than the intelligence quotient.
Eugene S. Wilson

Seize the moment of excited curiosity on any subject to solve your doubts; for if you let it pass, the desire may never return, and you may remain in ignorance.
William Wirt

And finally:

Curiosity killed the cat, but for a while I was a suspect.
Steven Wright

Deft


Deft, originally uploaded by jcgr.

Deftness – swift, skillful movement, inventiveness – beats bulk and brawn in thick city traffic.

How has deftness – of any type – been an asset to you in the past?

How can it help you again?

Being present and making progress

Uncertain times throw people off balance, in many different ways. We’ve each seen difficult times in life before, and we have made it through those, as well.

We can find – and make – a good path through the uncertainty of present times.

We are.

We will.

We can.

Here are a few thoughts from others to provide long-term perspective.

There is no such thing in anyone’s life as an unimportant day
Alexander Woolcott

You cannot truly listen to anyone and do anything else at the same time.
M. Scott Peck

Meditation is when you sit down and do nothing. Poetry is when you sit down and do something.
Norman Fischer

Those who say things cannot be done should not interrupt the people doing them.
Unknown

You must not only aim right, but draw the bow with all your might.
Henry David Thoreau

If the only prayer you ever say in your life is "thank you," it will be enough.
Meister Eckhart

And it is possible I have shared this one before, but it is so wonderful, so true…and so difficult but important to do many times in life that I must share it again:

You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face.
Eleanor Roosevelt

Simple pleasures are sometimes best


Haiku 12/52, originally uploaded by jcgr.

During times of great oscillation and, well, great stress, sometimes simple pleasures are best.

Here, the paw of our younger Golden Retriever, Zoe, falls near a leaf that has fallen on a rainy walk.

What are the simple pleasures you like best?

How can you bring them into your life more, or more regularly during times of great change or great stress?

Who would you put on an All-Time Best US Leadership Team?

As I waited for my change at a bookstore earlier this week, I noticed over the clerk’s shoulder that Harry, Abraham and George (as in Washington) were all staring back at me.

They were gracing the front of a few books on display during the wild and woolly election season of 2008.

Suddenly I imagined what we might hear if we could convene a group of America’s past leaders to get their advice on the circumstances and challenges we face now in the world and the US.

I took it a step further, inspired by a baseball video game our son describes where you can create a team of the best baseball players of all time to see how they might play together, and on teams, against each other.

I imagined building a leadership team for America made up of the best leaders from our past, irregardless of when they lived, or whom they governed with.

If you could create an All-Star Leadership Team for the US, who would you put on the team? Why?

Who would you name as the leader of that All-Star Leadership Team? What are the qualities you admire most about that person?

It’s just a game, just a thought.

It might help you, too, to clarify the leadership qualities that you value and admire the most.

Breaking for the lead


Breaking for the lead, originally uploaded by jcgr.

The field of candidates for president isn’t quite this deep by now, but it once was, or so it seemed at times.

We are down to two competitors. One in a few weeks will be victorious, with a huge and important job ahead. How well the victor leads will affect each one of us – in ways we can imagine, and in some ways we may not yet be able to grasp.

At this point, with just weeks to go, each presidential candidate is trying mightily to "break for the lead."

In the example here, many cross country runners try to break to the front to take the lead, trying then to hold it through the hard and rocky trail that leads to the finish line.

Life and leadership as viewed by a previous US president

Listening to the latest debate tonight between presidential candidates, I found myself thinking of our leaders past. So many faced very difficult straits, as is the case for our next elected leader.

I decided to take a look at Teddy Roosevelt, the 26th President, thought by many historians to be among America’s greatest presidents. The strength of his leadership of this huge and teeming nation is commemorated at South Dakota’s Mount Rushmore, along with Washington, Jefferson and Lincoln.

Here’s just a sample of Teddy Roosevelt’s thoughts on action and living a purposeful life:

Character, in the long run, is the decisive factor in the life of an individual and of nations alike.

Courtesy is as much a mark of a gentleman as courage.

I wish to preach, not the doctrine of ignoble ease, but the doctrine of the strenuous life.

People ask the difference between a leader and a boss. The leader leads, and the boss drives.

The boy who is going to make a great man must not make up his mind merely to overcome a thousand obstacles, but to win in spite of a thousand repulses and defeats.

When you are asked if you can do a job, tell ‘em, "Certainly I can!" Then get busy and find out how to do it.

With self-discipline most anything is possible.

Some change happens naturally


Clamshell, originally uploaded by jcgr.

There’s much talk about change this year in the US, with elections, and corrections (the economy, for one), and creating an energized nation once again.

In life, in politics, in nations, in groups and in families, too, there is some change that’s planned and encouraged.

And there’s some change you cannot stop, even if you wanted to.

Here’s just one simple example of change that’s going to happen, whether you want it to, or not: the change of seasons, the dropping of leaves as this "clamshell" leaf shows.

It is the force and rhythm of nature, once again, moving through.

Booster shots

"Booster shots" help our physical immunity. Courage "booster shots" can help, too. Here are a few:

To dare is to lose one’s footing momentarily. To not dare is to lose oneself.
Soren Kierkegaard

It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful. There is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power.
Alan Cohen

The best way out is always through.
Robert Frost

You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do.
Eleanor Roosevelt

Courage without conscience is a wild beast.
Robert Ingersoll

I long to accomplish a great and noble tasks, but it is my chief duty to accomplish humble tasks as though they were great and noble. The world is moved along, not only by the mighty shoves of its heroes, but also by the aggregate of the tiny pushes of each honest worker.
Helen Keller

When a resolute young fellow steps up to the great bully, the world, and takes him boldly by the beard, he is often surprised to find it comes off in his hand, and that it was only tied on to scare away the timid adventurers.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

Spectator row


Spectator row, originally uploaded by jcgr.

It’s hard to be the spectator when you want to:

- Make things happen

- Figure things out, problem-solve

- Do whatever you can to make things better for today, and tomorrow, as well

But sometimes that’s all you can do…wait patiently (even if nervously) in "spectator row."

Here, spectators at a cross country meet line up, held back from the lane of action as they wait for the field of hundreds of runners to soon move through and across the nearby finish line.