Resiliency is a skill we need again and again

Flexibility.

Adaptability.

Buoyancy.

Responsiveness to the circumstances we find ourselves in.

However you define it, resiliency is a skill that is vital for progress and success. No plan – well, almost no plan – is ever played out exactly as designed.

Something, somewhere will be different than anticipated. Some resource will be more limited, some barrier higher than was guessed.

Resiliency is a quality that we each need, many times in our lives. Now, with the challenges in the US and world economy, is a good time to practice the skills of resiliency for times when you may need it again. (We will be hearing this word, over and over again for some time to come, I expect).

Think back to times in your life:

- Was there a time when you needed to be resilient, but you weren’t? What happened, as a result?

- Now think of a time when you needed to be resilient, and you were. What happened because you were adaptable in this case?

- Why were you able to be resilient in one circumstance, but not the next? Were there any differences in your preparation, the resources available to you, or your support system, such as family and friends who could help or advise or encourage you?

- Does the difference between these two experiences – the time you were resilient, and the time you were not – give you any ideas for how you can be the most resilient, the next time you need to vary from your original plan?

Forging on

The times are changing. More changes are afoot. This will all take a while to play out so in the meantime, we carry on, whatever we’re doing, wherever we are.

Here, then, a few thoughts about carrying on in the face of adversity:

What is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads?
Albert Camus

Out of clutter, find Simplicity. From discord, find Harmony. In the middle of difficulty lies Opportunity.
Albert Einstein

God made the world round so we would never be able to see too far down the road.
Isak Dinesen

You’re either in synch in a canoe, or you’re a mess.
Mary Steenburgen

A man’s doubts and fears are his worst enemies.
William Wrigley, Jr.

And finally, this from an essay our son wrote a few years ago:

Anybody with a dream, a plan, and a friend can overcome any difficult obstacle, no matter what the cost.
Matt Richards, 7th grade essay on Lemony Snicket and "A Series of Unfortunate Events"

Take a nature break


Stark shadows, late in the day, originally uploaded by jcgr.

Despite uncertainty, of these things you can be sure (well, pretty sure):

- Tomorrow the sun will rise
- The grass will grow
- The ongoing flow of life will go on, no matter what Washington does

Get outside for a bit. Let the wind blow through your hair, let the sun warm your skin.

Take a deep, full breath of fresh air. Then do it again.

Take a walk. Take a run.

A nature break, a "nature bath," when you can, suddenly puts things into full, yet simple perspective.

Provide crisp, clear direction

Trying to engage employees, we as managers and team leaders offer choice, a chance to express an opinion, a vote.

At times, though, even a few choices may be too much.

We are in times like that. People are surrounded by uncertainty:
- The roller coaster economy makes the future seem even more unknown.
- The presidential election, and whatever leadership decision the country, collectively, makes will affect our future in many ways, all yet to be discovered. It will take time.
- Homes and livelihoods may be, or seem to be at risk for a while to come.
- People’s health may start to be affected by stress, if stress is not eased and proactively managed.
And there’s more.

Do your employees and your team a favor when times are uncertain. Provide crisp, clear, consistent direction. Use the power of a simple, declarative sentence.

Take a choice off the table.

It may be what your employees and team members want and need the most.

Why?

The risk of all decisions – sometimes even the simplest ones – seems higher in times like ours.

And, the net result?

People who are normally very skilled at juggling, and making progress toward many different goals may appreciate the relief (yes, the relief) of one less decision they own.

As a leader, make your direction especially clear now:

- Err on the side of simple, clear, specific directions

- Be consistent

- Follow up, clearly, crisply, calmly

They’re actions your employees may eventually thank you for.

Stunned for a moment, just because


Hand in the sky, originally uploaded by jcgr.

A scene from a few years ago, a cloud that formed a hand in the sky – or seemed to.

My reaction? Amused.

And stunned.

Think back on a few moments in your life:

- What’s an amusing thing you saw sometime in the past month?

- When did you last laugh those full-body laughs that seem to take over, leaving you at their mercy?

- What are some of the best, most stunning scenes you’ve seen?

Back to basics time

It’s back to the basics time.

Doing the fundamentals well is always important. And in times of uncertainty, that is especially the case.

For example:

- What is your mission?
- Who are your customers?
- What do they want? Has that changed in the last few months…or days?
- What are your goals, as an organization?
- What are your priorities?
- Have your priorities changed in the last few months…or days?
- Are priorities clear to everyone who must help you achieve them? (And are you sure they’re clear? It makes a difference).
- What do your employees or team need from you now – today – to continue to move forward in uncertain times in the strongest, most effective way?

Wisdom in the midst of chaos

Wild is putting it mildly.

It’s been a "hang on for the ride" couple of days.

As we find our own bearings and help provide a steady path to others, as may sometimes be the case, here are a few thoughts on talent, action and perspective in the face of what are likely to be more wild days:

An artist of understanding and experience can show more of his great power and art in small things roughly and rudely done, than many another in a great work. A man may often draw something with his pen on a half sheet of paper in one day…and it shall be fuller of art and better than another’s great work whereon he hath spent a whole year’s careful labor.
Albrecht Durer

The most important thing is, only do it. When you only do something 100 percent, then there is no subject, no object. There is no inside or outside. Inside and outside already become one. That means you and the universe are never separate. There is no thinking.
Seung Sahn

The invariable mark of wisdom is seeing the miraculous in the common.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures.
Thornton Wilder

Live in such a way that you would not be ashamed to sell your parrot to the town gossip.
Will Rogers

Beautiful details


Beautiful details, originally uploaded by jcgr.

Sometimes the details are most beautiful.

Sometimes the whole is where the beauty most fully plays.

There is something beautiful where you are, if you turn your eyes, your thoughts lightly, to the right place.

And yes, it is easy to lose sight of it on the most difficult days.

What is beautiful in your work, your life, today?

Thinking ahead

We are turning toward the future in the US, as we must with an election ahead. Here are thoughts others have had about foraging for a great future, and forging ahead:

When men are ruled by fear, they strive to prevent the very changes that will abate it.
Alan Paton in The Challenge of Fear

The present is great with the future.
Goffried Leibnitz

Today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.
Unknown

Fortune favors the brave.
Terence, Roman playwright

Although gold dust is precious, when it gets in your eyes, it obstructs your vision.
Hsi-Tong

Great minds like a think


Great minds like a think, originally uploaded by jcgr.

True. A great "think" is a great thing.