“Can” or “can’t”?

You have a big goal (who doesn’t?).

Think about it for a moment.

Do you believe you will succeed? Or that you won’t?

Whatever your beliefs – can/can’t, will/won’t – they make a huge difference in your:

- Intensity of effort
- Focus
- Enthusiasm
- Innovation in working around, getting over, moving through or setting aside the barriers that inevitably arise in any major effort

Ultimately, the “make-or-break”-ness of your pursuit depends on whether you think you can or can’t succeed, and whether you believe you will, or you won’t.

It depends on your preparation and skills, too, of course. But at the end of the day, the end of the race? The difference maker?

Your beliefs.

And whatever they are, they can change, for the better. It’s not easy, perhaps, but they’re not carved in stone. You have changed other beliefs before.

You can change this one, if it is not working in your own, and others’ best interests.

Extreme defense


Mounting a strong defense
Originally uploaded by jcgr.

A beautiful flower, yes.

But an extreme, even excessive defense system in place, perhaps?

Just three, each…

Pause for a moment – just a moment – and consider:

- What are the three happiest moments of your life (so far)?

- When are three times when you said, “Thanks. From the bottom of my heart, I mean it,” and you did?

- What are the three toughest decisions you ever had to make?

- Of those three tough decisions, would you change the decision you made – and the direction you took – or are you happy with the way things worked out?

A brief pause in the action

A few quotes I love and want to share because, well…I must:

It is useless to show a gold piece to a cat.
Zen saying

Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself.
Louis Mann

Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.
Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Everybody gets so much information all day long that they lose their common sense.
Gertrude Stein

Do you think thinking right now is more important than rubbing my back? I don’t THINK so!
Our son to me one night when he was 7 or 8; I laughed and agreed with him

You have 2 billion unread messages


You have 2,147,483,628 unread messages
Originally uploaded by jcgr.

A little work to catch up on, I guess.

This was the first of two, and the lesser of two unhelpful experiences with technology on this day.

The other was with my internet service provider (not AT&T in this particular case). It is cancelling its satellite broadband service in the area, much as we’d like to keep the service as it is.

So, to make sure they got the attention of customers before the change, more than three weeks hence, what did they do? Instead of e-mailing, calling yet again (they already had my attention…there was no need to bug me again) on this Monday morning?

They flipped a switch. Cut off the service on the Monday morning after the 4th of July when people are catching up on work that has built up over a three-day weekend.

No warning.

No request.

No apology.

Just cancelled service. On purpose.

The person I talked to told me (astounded) that they meant to. To get customers’ attention.

But what it did, in addition, was to show no respect for customers’ time or their own plans and directions, forcing them to drop everything and problem solve if they thought the problem was on their end, or to grit their teeth and head directly down the labyrinthine path that is the typical phone company customer service call experience.

All in the name of what was best for the company, itself, in the short-run. The long-run? Ahh, the long-run is another matter.

I cannot imagine what drove the person who made the decision to flip the switch to cut off service to thousands of customers, just like that, on a post-holiday Monday morning.

And all of it occurring right when the customers whose attention they wanted were deciding, for the long-run, which service provider is the "least worst." (I hate choosing the "least worst." It’s so much better for so many people and so many reasons to be able to choose from a league of the "best of the best" players.)

The “why” of process improvement

Here’s a great description of what process improvement really does:

The ability to simplify means to eliminate the unnecessary so that the
necessary may speak.
Hans Hofmann

Fresh eats in fresh air accompanied liberally by laughter


Brunch
Originally uploaded by jcgr.

A fresh moment from a lazy long holiday weekend:

Great food
Bright blue sky
Bright green trees
Crisp awning
The company of loved ones
Shared laughter and great conversation

What more can you need?

Freedom

Thoughts turn to freedom today, Independence Day in the US.

There is national freedom which we celebrate today. But there is also personal freedom which we give to ourselves, or don’t, depending on the choices we make about the way we live our lives.

Is there a personal freedom – a habit you’d like to break or a dream you’d like to fulfill – that you would like to celebrate the next time Independence Day comes around?

- If so, what can you do to make it true by July 4, 2009?

- What’s the very first step leading to your new independence?

- Can you take it on your own, or do you need training or help to do so?

- How and when will you begin?

Celebrate well this Independence Day, and even more with newfound freedoms you’ve given yourself by the next time July 4 rolls around.

Fresh energy


Shooting golden rays
Originally uploaded by jcgr.

Here’s a bright, intense flower to give you a quick energy boost.

You, too, may well be double-timing, trying to move much good work through during a busy, short but fun holiday week.

It’s a challenge.

It’ll work. It always does. Somehow.

Effort-making and rewards

In the midst of the trying to advance the strong finish of a few major projects, I paused to refresh with a few quotes. Here are some I found that you may appreciate, yourself:

Life feeds back truth to people in its own way and time.
Sara Paddison

Inconsistency with ourselves is the great weakness of human nature.
Joseph Addison

The writing is the really wonderful part. A lot of this is discovery. A lot of things are lying around waiting to be discovered and that’s our job is to just notice them and bring them to life.
George Carlin, on his writing process

Effort only fully releases its reward after a person refuses to quit.
Napoleon Hill

Imagine delirious vacation power.
Magnetic poetry