Today is the day

Fresh day, fresh week. Almost a fresh month.

Finish these sentences (this is just a little Monday morning brainstorming run):

Today, just for fun, I will…

I’m looking forward to…

Today I move beyond…

Today I will give myself the gift of…

Behind this…

There are days, there are times, when this is a good quote to know:

Behind all this, some great happiness is hiding.
Yehuda Amichai

Sometimes…


Who can see the track meet with that gorgeous rainbow overhead?
Originally uploaded by jcgr.

…an unexpected distraction provides just the right perspective.

Currency of attention

What’s the currency of attention where you work?

Seth Godin, in a recent post, “Managing urgencies,” encourages readers to shift their primary attention from high-urgency short-term issues to achievement of long-term goals. Real emergencies must be handled, of course, but sometimes the long-range focus takes care of the siren call of the short-term, step by step.

His post reminded me of the currency of attention at one company where I worked. It was a place where many good things happened, but at high expense, in many ways.

One person joked (well, she wasn’t entirely kidding) that it was a place where management expected people to “throw their bodies at the train” in order to get things done (and, at some level, perhaps to prove they were as dedicated as the next person who was also…throwing his or her body at the train).

In one particular circumstance, I was working with finance staff at some of the manufacturing sites. They were rightly proud of the work they had done to streamline, simplify and prevent future problems in the key processes they managed. They asked for a few senior leaders to visit, to care enough to stop in to see what they were doing, and to appreciate the future successes they had set up (greater capacity at lower costs, for one, along with increased team strength, satisfaction, and pride in the work they’d already done).

I was impressed with their work, their enthusiasm and how well the team was working, and carried their request back to the senior leaders.

Said one, “No…,” as he thought a bit, and then he suddenly added with a laugh, “I like to go where the PROBLEMS are!”

As he spoke, a picture flashed before me of a major night time accident being cleaned up, the injured being rushed off in full, shrill-siren mode, under the glare of many night emergency lights.

I don’t think he realized what he was really saying. And that’s that what he valued most – by virtue of how he chose to direct the limited time and attention he had to distribute across the many people he led – was to seek and focus on the drama, the biggest and, well, to him, the most exciting problem he could find to dive into. And then the he’d be off to find the next one. And then the next one, in a never-ending stream.

He was, unwittingly, rewarding problem-finding, not problem-solving or, better yet, problem prevention.

It’s the same way, Godin suggests, in many companies where the “fun” is in the adrenalin rush, in the uncertainty, wondering if the newest emergency will end in “high fives” or, “Well, at least we tried…”

When you think of your company and the currency of attention where you work, what do you notice?

- What gets attention? More specifically, what gets senior management attention?

- What is lauded, applauded?

- What leads to bonuses, raises, promotions?

- Is that what’s best for the long-term health and vibrancy of your company?

As you imagine the future if things stay the same, will the ways your company directs its attention, energy, and other limited resources (like cash) lead to more customers, positive referrals, and more business in the months and years ahead?

- If not, what needs to be change?

- Where and how do you begin to do that?

And if you’re not sure where to begin, let me know. We’ll start to figure it out.

Practicing, practicing, practicing


Northbound
Originally uploaded by jcgr.

Practicing new challenges to build confidence takes preparation and careful attention, whatever the skill that’s being created.

Here, the practice underway involves our son’s taking on some of the Bay Area’s greater driving challenges in the last few months before he gets his driver’s license early this summer.

Safe crossing

Our son is nearing the licensed driver stage, has taken the required classes and outside training, but there’s still “finishing work” and hours he needs to log before my husband and I will sign on the dotted line that he is fully ready for solo driving.

Spring break this week provided an opportunity for a few hours’ journey. I thought we might jaunt a few hours south, but he wanted to travel north, so we set off for Muir Woods, a National Park Service Monument full of gorgeous redwood trees in Marin County. That meant, as a result, that he’d be driving the streets of San Francisco, and taking on the uncertainties and need for high attention that goes with traveling across the Golden Gate Bridge.

Matt had not dealt with either of these driving challenges, and needed, sooner or later, to do so to be a safe and confident driver Bay Area driver (along those lines, we heard that the Golden Gate Bridge was closed in both directions this afternoon when one car crossed the center line and quickly, multiple cars were involved in a pileup that sent several people to the hospital, some with serious injuries. Today’s accident once again drove home the criticality of traveling across the Golden Gate Bridge carefully, attentively, ready for the vagaries of that stretch).

Matt drove well, and he followed a few key rules that increase the chances he’s ready for anything he may encounter, if need be:

1. He drove at a safe speed, and with the flow of traffic.
2. He paid close attention to the task at hand.
3. He was well-practiced in the basic skills leading up to this challenge, and could put them all together well as he “worked” through it, moment by moment.
4. He was calm (or that’s the impression he created, at least).
5. In all of his decisions and actions, he maintained safe conditions for us and for the others we encountered on the road that day.

Did the experience of San Francisco driving and the bridge-crossing affect his driving confidence?

Yes – much more than I would have expected.

It was one more example that, as with any learning task, it is steady progression through greater challenges that builds the learner’s confidence and ability to handle whatever’s ahead.

Thought provokers

For today, a few quotes to help stir up creative and maybe even some productively uncomfortable thoughts:

Most of the stress that people feel doesn’t come from having too much to do – it comes from not keeping agreements they’ve made with themselves.
David Allen

Sometimes I go about in pity for myself, and all the while a great wind is bearing me across the sky.
Ojibwa saying

One of the greatest necessities in America is to discover creative solitude.
Carl Sandburg

In proportion as our inward life fails, we go constantly and desperately to the post office.
Henry David Thoreau

Modern life conditions us to skim the surface of experience, then quickly move on to something new.
Stephan Rechschaffen, M.D.

Live the questions now. Perhaps, then, someday far into the future, you will gradually, without even noticing it, live your way into the answer.
Rainer Maria Rilke

Creative celebrating

It was an interesting holiday, Easter 2008. Instead of going to a full holiday buffet, leaving physically satiated with chocolate eggs on our faces, yet somehow unsatisfied, we decided to create an experience completely new, and more responsive to the circumstances of this particular year.

Our daughter was working so our family of four was down to three.

Good friends with whom we celebrate the annual “state occasions” (Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter when we can), among others, were also down to three of their normal four.

Once the holiday was already a different, we decided to throw it all up in the air, be creative, and come up with something entirely new. And the unusual convergence of Easter with the NCAA basketball tournament was still another consideration.

What we REALLY needed was a sports bar with an Easter buffet.

That’s what we sought. And that’s pretty much what we found. That and a slow waitress so we could s…t…r…e…t…c…h the appetizers through the first half.

It was fun, it was memorable. And it was responsive to the challenge of celebrating in a new way this year.

A few specific scenes from the day that amused me:

- At church, a family with two little girls arrived late, but the girls were fluffy, perfectly dressed, perfectly and photogenically behaved. Until…the younger one stuck her finger firmly in her nose. I had to laugh because as a parent, I know that moment. For despite her mother’s best efforts to get everything JUST RIGHT for this big day, the little girl’s nose knew best what, at that moment, she had to do. (It reminds me, in a way, of a three-generation family photo session when one of our children was three. Twelve people can be ready, but if that last, littlest one is not…well, that’s the amusing detail you notice first in the shot).

- A little boy, perhaps three and surely chocolate-stoked by the time he arrived at church, was exuberant, irrepressible, and very entertaining (unknown to him and his beleaguered mother). He had on a crayon green shirt, fashionably untucked, with a big boy tie he was OH SO proud of.

At the altar he took his communion host and joyously munched part of it, bobbing his head in rhythym as he chewed. When the cup of wine came by, he dipped and swirled the host like it was a chip sweeping up a great big glob of delicious dip. To this little boy, this was no “sacrifice.” It was a “treat” for Heaven’s sake! Until…he tasted the red wine on that “chip.”

Then he understood, in the smallest possible way, the meaning of “commitment” – to the mouthful he had just chewed.

All stages of the competitive process


All stages of the competitive process
Originally uploaded by jcgr.

The many stages of the competitive process, all in play at once.

Running…toward or away?

Spring releases the urge to run. Released from the weight, the gray, the cold, the burdens of winter, the urge to be free is strong.

For some, that run is “toward” a goal. For some, it is “away” from a problem, or the fear of one. The differences in the quality of running became even more apparent a few days ago as I watched high school track competitors.

Running toward is:
- Invigorating
- Energizing
- Thoroughbred-quality focus
- A strong pull forward by the goal, itself

Running away is:
- Fear-filled
- Looking over one’s shoulder, worried about being chased, caught, overrun
- Focusing on what’s behind instead of what’s ahead
- Tight rather than light
- Held back, restricted, conflicted

Consider these qualities of “toward” and “away” when you think of how you’re addressing a current goal:

If you’re running “toward”:
1. What is your goal? Is it your own, or is it one someone set for you?
2. Are you prepared to give the race, the contest your best?
3. Are you ready for the best that your best competitor offers in the toughest contest you can imagine? If not, how can you learn, improve or adjust?
4. Are you ready to “best” your own best performance from the past? Or have you lost your edge? How can you get it back, and move ahead?

If you’re running “away”:
1. What are you running from?
2. Are you running from something that’s perhaps long gone (or never existed at all), such as certain expectations, fears, or perceptions you thought were in play?
3. Can you get better final results (more thriving, less striving) if you focus on an inspiring goal instead of what you’re afraid might sweep you up?
4. Do you believe you can succeed? Do you believe you will? And most fundamentally, do you believe you deserve to? (Your beliefs about success, and whether you deserve it or not, are a very strong driving force that you may not realize are working for, or against you).

Enough for now. Go for the run, and toward the goal, that you want most.