You mean I could DRIVE???


You mean I could DRIVE???
Originally uploaded by jcgr.

So I reached the "summit," the reservoir, having an expectation of what I would find there, and what was I greeted by? A road…so I could have driven there?

I laughed at myself, and the fact that I wasn’t quite as far away from modern civilization as I’d thought.

But driving in this case would have completely missed the point. The point, of course, is the challenge and the journey. Now the challenge is being able to reach this point faster each time…or to choose a new, and higher climb.

And yes, I know. I could drive. (I do enough of that, as it is).

Nearing the goal


Nearing the goal
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My goal? The summit of a small mountain (hey, you have to start somewhere to get to the top of Mt. Everest).

And the results…well…check the next photo.

Reaching for the sun


Reaching for the sun
Originally uploaded by jcgr.

It’s a Monday, so flowers are in order once again.

Hope yours is a good one.

In order to say yes, you have to be ready to say no

Strong leadership requires it. To lead wholeheartedly, to make a full-body commitment to “yes,” you have to know your threshold, when you would say “no.”

And you have to know you’re strong enough to do so. Can you see, envision yourself following through? If so, you’re well on your way to being ready to go.

Knowing your “yes” and perhaps more importantly your “no” is a key to leadership, and self-leadership. Examples of those who don’t know their own “no” or can’t follow through – and the consequences of it – are littered through the fields of politics, business, social change, personal lives, every day.

A few guidelines may help you the next time you’re faced with these big questions.

1. Where is your “no”? Why? Can you hold the line when the time is right? When, and how in the past did you do so? Recall an experience of power and integrity – whether your own, or someone else’s that inspires you – and draw on that for strength when pressure is cast. If the issue is important enough, legions (real or metaphorical) will be trying to force you to do things their way.

2. How strong and whole-hearted is your “yes”? Or are you keeping one foot over the “not really committed but maybe they’ll never find out” line all the time, afraid of making a clear call? (If you’re a leader, your team knows this is the case. And if you’re part of a team, your leader knows, too).

It’s really a question of aligning values and goals. If there’s a mismatch, one way you’ll know is that you experience excess stress, or just as tough (and sometimes more so), extreme boredom with the path ahead.

Or as one author sees it, here’s the consequence:

Life is not lost by dying; life is lost minute by minute, day by dragging day, in all the small uncaring ways.
- Stephen Vincent Benet

Be ready for whatever’s next


We CAN do this, yes…
Originally uploaded by jcgr.

You just never know what position you’ll have to play to help out the team…and you’d better be ready for anything.

In the 10th inning of a game between the San Francisco Giants and the Oakland A’s on Friday night, third baseman Pedro Feliz was called in for catcher’s duty when the two regulars were injured.

Reluctant? Yes. He held his own…though the game didn’t ultimately go the Giants’ way.

At least he was ready, and he played his part…and then some.

You just never know what’s next.

Be ready.

The curse AND blessing of deadlines

On the ride home yesterday, I listened to a couple of musicians in another interesting NPR interview.

Win Butler and Regine Chassagne of the band Arcade Fire were on Fresh Air.

The interview was interesting for many reasons, but I laughed when Win said he changed his major in college from what was easy for him (making music and art), to something he knew would be good for him, but was harder. I did the same thing in grad school,in a different realm…choosing what was harder for me, but better, in the long run.

I laughed when I heard him say:

“It’s really hard to read St. Augustine unless you have a paper due.”

I thought to myself, yes, it IS the structure, the “due-ness” that gets things done – including learning – lots of times.

I’m working with a client now to help lead the organization through a series of learning and application steps that will enable them to know, and effectively apply the skills of effective process design and management. They are learning, and owning what they learn, in a deeper way than they would if they read a book, or watched a video…any of the more passive ways of learning. Learning and quick application is the order of the day.

The process of learning in a defined, structured and applied way reminds me, in a way, of helping our daughter move the past few weekends.

There were many reasons no one was ready for the work ahead. Yet there was no way around the work but through it.

And the process had officially begun…it was no longer theoretical, no longer a plan, no longer something to dread…by the time we’d moved the first two things to the “ready to load and go” spot by the front door.

With the first step, beginning (anything) is no longer ahead. Beginning has already been done.

You can check “begin” off the list with the move of that first box to the front door, ready to load and go.

Fresh beginning

Wherever you are, you can start there and change direction if your direction now doesn’t feel quite right.

Even small differences – actions, decisions, or criteria for how you make those decisions – can change in big ways the outcome of your day, week, year…or life. (Scary but exciting, eh?)

Although no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.
- Anonymous

Commencing


Quartet of grads
Originally uploaded by jcgr.

The next stage – and the first day of the rest of your life – starts for many people at this time of the year. This group includes our daughter (second from the right) and three of her nutritional science friends at UC Berkeley. Our niece graduates from Carleton next weekend.

What’s one of the best gifts that those commencing a new stage in life can give to themselves?

Great financial habits. Check out this recent New York Times article for ideas and resources.

And good luck to all of you commencing a new stage in your lives, whatever it may be.

Just for fun


Dog heaven in Santa Cruz
Originally uploaded by jcgr.

If you’re a dog lover, you’ll appreciate this. If not, pretend the dogs are not in the picture, and enjoy just the beach, itself.

A good news story about responsiveness

The Bay Area, Caltrans, and the contractor they hired, C. C. Myers, are getting rave reviews for their responsiveness to the melting of the 580 overpass in Oakland after a tanker blew up. This photostream by Scott Jones tells the story well, from first melt to full repair.

The reasons for success are many, including a great partnership between government and the contractor.

In terms of government’s ability to respond to an emergency, well, Hurricane Katrina was one story. This one? Entirely the opposite.

So much so that Newsweek in its June 4, 2007 edition put the Bay Area in its Conventional Wisdom column with an “up” arrow, saying, “Repairs critical freeway less than a month after fiery collapse. Send can-dos to D.C. to get something done.”

In addition, Myers’ comments about his work after the project, and his approach to it, were enlightening. Summarizing the project at the opening of the freeway after the work was done, Myers said, “It’s not work…it’s fun to come out here and build something like this!”

“You’ve got to work hard. There’s a certain amount of luck to everything. And you’ve got to love what you’re doing,” Myers said at the end of an interview on NBC News about his success on this project.